"Inclusion" Your community your time.

Like this beauty that never doubts, never excludes but united they stand!

So as we go along our lives we learn to established real meaningful relationships that can be healthy in the long run, but based on certain communities, within society, poor, rich or middle class the social norms can be conflicting. Regardless of our educational background we need to hold our selves accountable for not correcting errors, or ignoring what is true a factual thing that causes conflict.

If I had friends in college who were very dear and very supportive of me through my life and I supported them I would not replace them no matter how weird they may seem to people, or no matter if their situation is running through tough times I would be their good friend, on their corner and communicate which is the actual standard of good friendships.

During the process of growing up kids can do substantial damage to other kids by isolating them, based on race, on economical status, based on jealousy of racial standards, based on having friends that can be negatively influential. It harms other kids and they know it, they are aware of it, and as parents we to blame for the bullying that goes in school, for the anxiety that is caused in this schools where kids are asking themselves why she wont talk to me anymore, or why are we not friends here anymore when you used to come and spend the night over, we did so many things together and he or she wont talk to me anymore. This is very hurtful to see many children get hurt by pretense friendships, that other parents monitor based on interest for their kids only.

You need to have a one on one with your children and help them understand that their little friends will no be around forever or establish a parameter with your children's parent/friends to let them know exactly what you expect because of cultural differences. In all regards always love your children and keep them safe, happy and communicate with them.

The Truly Yours Fund has speakers who talk about how to built true healthy relationships, and communicate with your kids parents about having healthy relationships and not just occasional accidental friends.